A Magic Word--Part IV

4. Say yes when we really mean it

 

 

If people gave us things no one wants to do, when we say yes, we mean yes. We need to say it from our heart and happily accept them. If we really think yes, then we would do a good job. If people ask for help, we also need to say yes from deep inside. If we are reluctant, people can feel it and may have a bad feeling about themselves or about us. No matter things are going well or not well, sincerely saying yes to ourselves is an encouragement and recognition. With the sincere yes, our life will get better and better. We cannot lie to people, and we can’t lie to ourselves either. Only a sincere yes can help us be a winner.

 

 

So, from now on, we need to change. We need to start to say yes, when people ask us for a favor or when they ask us to do something no one wants to do, and when things are going well or not going well, and most of all, when we really mean it. It’s not that hard. But you probably would ask: what would happen when we start to say “yes”? Now let’s imagine some possibilities. When no one wants to wash the dishes, you go and do it. Your wife will love you more, or your mother may give you more allowance. When someone asks you for a ride and you say yes, and someday when you forget to bring your wallet and that someone may buy you a lunch. If you’re trying to lose weight, but your method seem not very effective. You say yes to yourself and keep trying. Finally you successfully lose some pounds. When you achieve this little goal, buy a nice dress to celebrate your victory, and say yes to confirm yourself. You will find that you are a winner. You really did it.

 

 

Now, let me ask you again, please answer my question. Do you believe one magic word can change your life? Do you believe in yourself? Are you confident enough to face any difficulties in the future? Are you motivated? You can achieve any goal, just say yes!